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Monday, April 30, 2012

The Hunger Games and Feminism

I went and saw The Hunger Games on opening weekend.

I went because I was hearing good things about the story the movie is based on and that I had heard good things about the movie itself from new outlets covering the response it had received starting Thursday night at midnight that week. I also went because the distopian future that is the backdrop of this story is in the vein of fiction that I enjoy absorbing.

I was very surprised when, shortly after seeing the film, I encountered this article (pasted here for completeness, even though it means potentially more traffic for the author of the article).

Just a word of warning. The linked article and the words below contain spoilers for the movie and books.

In addition to the remaining commentary below I want to point out that the author of the linked article is damaging the very core idea of Feminism by insisting that feminist ideal mean that the female character is superior in every way to those around them. This is a flawed idea and will not further the agenda of equality for all of humanity. The way to end the patriarchal society that humanity has created is the same way to end racism: treat everyone as a human regardless of their color or gender (or height or width, etc.). It will take two generations to stamp out the ideas if we treat everyone equally all the time. The ideas that people are different based on their gender or color are taught - if we continue to teach that, even with the idea of teaching to NOT do that, we are perpetuating the idea itself.

At the time that I read the article I created a facebook post to outline my problems with the article itself. Because I am lazy and did not feel like re-working that post for this blog post I am pasting the facebook post, as-is, here.... They're my words, I can re-use them.




I call BS on the article.
It has facts wrong and it has a skewed point of view to deliberately inflame the situation.
It's being deliberately obstinate and adversarial.

To start - there was a (probably) minor set of commentary among people... who did not like that Rue and Thresh were black. It even appears that their concern was that they had built concern and caring for the character of Rue after having built a picture of the character in their head of a (anything but black) little girl. In their eyes they wasted their caring on a character that they felt they should not have cared for because of her skin color. There are plenty of article out there on this and I like to think that the few twitter examples represent a very small portion of the overall population (sadly, I'm sure what I want that percentage to be is considerably less than it is).
Noting this is a fair point for this author and, to be fair, it is not what they are focusing on so I should not, either.

What this author appears to be focusing on is that the media is making this out to be a feminist story. This author is stating that this can't be a feminist story and then providing reasons.

Their first reason is that the story is not named after the main character, but is, rather, named after what happens to her. The author is making this to be a core reason why this cannot be a feminist story.
This reasoning is plain and complete crap.
Without the games themselves Katniss would continue to be a nobody within the setting. The games are what drive the society and what drive Katniss to here elevated position.
There are many examples of stories with protagonists who are NOT the title of the story. I could start naming them, but I would fill my character limit before I made a dent in the overall list. The reality is that the title has nothing to do with whether a story fairly represents characters as EQUALS. True feminism shouldn't exist because it is really about representing women and men as equals and this story demonstrates clearly that both male and female contestants can, and have, won the games. Each contestant has no alteration in their chances based on their gender. They make what luck they can and make the odds in their favor as much as they can using their skills and the tools at hand. It's that simple. This is not a "feminazi" story and I would argue that any incident of extreme feminism in which all male characters are suppressed. That is no more of a equality situation than the standard patriarchal construct that is abundant everywhere.

Moving on to the next point the author puts out there: that Katniss never kills anyone.
The author is wrong. Katniss is directly responsible for the deaths of at least two of the other contestants and indirectly responsible for at least one other. The author obviously did not pay much attention to the topic that they are writing about to miss these VERY relevant facts.

The author of the article is stating that Katniss and Cinderella are identical and that neither is a strong character.
The author of the article cannot be more wrong.

Anyone who, at age 11, takes over the head-of-household role and illegally trespasses on government land to hunt for food to feed her catatonic mother and sister is a strong character. Anyone who, starting at age 11, deals with the local black market to trade poached game for other goods and services is a strong character.
Anyone who, through their knowledge and acquired experience, can survive in the woods with baking daytime temperatures and sub-freezing nighttime temperatures with only a jacket, a sleeping bag, a water bottle (started empty), a means to sterilize water, a knife and a pack to carry it all in is a strong character.
Anyone who, regardless of how they do it, survives a caged death-match with 23 other contestants is a strong character.
Anyone who, upon finding them in the woods, can have the presence of mind to keep them from dying from their grievous leg injury until medical help can be obtained is a strong character. Anyone who, upon understanding the strategy of their strongest opponents takes an overt military action to obliterate that strategy and all of the advantages that those opponents had is a strong character.
Anyone who, to save the one person they love the most, will willingly step into a life-threatening situation where the odds are certainly NOT in their favor is a strong character.

I challenge the article's author to successfully complete any of the seven points above. Most people would fail to complete them. Most people would have died.

The author does, in fairness, have a valid comment about the lack of feminist (or equalist) ideals in fair tales. The Hunger Games is NOTHING like those fairy tales even if that comment is immediately spoiled by stating that Katniss has no ...decisions of her own in the arena.

She does.

She makes the decision the author admits to.
She makes the decision to heed the advice of her mentor when the games begin (the book even outlines how she was contemplating going against that until she lost her chance).
She makes the decisions to be smart about where and when she sleeps.
She makes the decisions about when to, and not to, have a fire.
She makes the decisions to hide and run.
She makes the decisions to stay and fight.
She makes the decision to go offensive and remove the advantages that the bigger, stronger, better-trained and faster contestants had secured for themselves.
She makes decisions constantly in the story. Many of them are what kept her alive in the fight against nature and many of them are what kept her alive in the conflicts against the other contestants.

The "impossible packages" that come from the sky are not. Each contestant clearly knows that they have sponsors and that those sponsors can provide them with gifts if they choose. Each contestant knows that their performance in the arena is what leads to sponsors choosing to invest in them. Bad decisions and bad performance leads to no "impossible packages" where good performance, strategy and decision-making leads to gifts that help you stay alive to make more decisions.

Moving onward through the article the author then states that Katniss DID kill but claims it was reflexive and not a deliberate act?
The answer to that is: so?
She did what she needed to do. She made the right choice. She made that choice without spending time thinking about it. Thinking about it would have cost her her life.
The article's author also conveniently forgets to discuss an earlier situation where Katniss took action knowing that it would likely result in the death of at least one other contestant. She knew it had a high chance of killing and that it might kill up to five other contestants. She took the action knowing that. She did it BECAUSE of that.

The article's author then, conveniently, forgets to correctly identify that the rules change that allows for both Katniss and Peeta to live was announce MUCH earlier. In fact, they tried to revoke that change and Katniss made another decision that was specifically designed to force the game-masters into upholding their earlier rules-change that allowed two victors.
The very next paragraph has the article's author outlining that Katniss was robbed of this decision. She was not. Her decision is what MADE them reverse the rules that forced her to make the decision.
Katniss made the plan. Katniss made the decision. Katniss rebelled against the government and won.

I will freely admit that the author has a solid point about false feminine agency in the beginning of the third part of their article. Society has norms. It pushes them onto people, men and women alike, every day. Society has an inertia and a power and that is precisely what landed Katniss in the arena in the first place. Her choices within the arena were hers. Many of them were partially forced because of the circumstances, but they were still her choices.
When she avenges Rue she could have chosen to run instead. She could have chosen to handle Rue's death differently. She could have chosen to not acknowledge Rue's life to the people of her district. Those were actions that were not coerced by the circumstances and, in fact, were counter to the best tactics of the arena. Katniss chose to dedicate her resources to do those actions explicitly because she WANTED to.
I will also admit that much of the societal influences that remove decisions from women are actions that other women take. Men take some actions, and put forward suggestions but women are the ones who engage in the competition between women (whether it is warranted or not) over appearance, etc.

I particularly like that the author points out The Running Man in the end. The main character of that movie has no greater "agency" than Katniss. That character HAS to kill. That character does not have the option to run and hide. That character is not fighting only the other contestants but also professional killers who deliberately hunt the contestants AND are better equipped. Katniss used strategy and tactics to get where she got; the running man used brute force. I'll take a smart, strategic character over someone who survives by brute force any day. They are, in the end, stronger (because they can use their environment to maximize themselves) and they are much more interesting.

Furthermore, I could easily point out that one can extrapolate that society and environment rob us ALL of all elements of agency all the time. If Katniss' ability to survive in the woods and make the appropriate suvival decisions was a lack of agency because she was forced into the arena in the first place than we're all robbed of agency because we did not deliberately choose to be in the world, nor the society that we live in. We are here and we're making the most of it on a daily basis because that is the greatest level of choice we have available to us.

(I could extrapolate out even further and get into the Newtonian physics of sub-atomic particles and how they affect the chemistry in our brains, thus robbing us of the agency of how we feel, too.... but I won't go into more depth on that than this comment).



For those who are interested Amazon.com has a whole store for Hunger Games products including a boxed set of the books.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

On Parenting...

I am not a parent. I have no intention of ever being a parent. I don't want the responsibility of being a parent and, especially, I don't want the hard choices required of being a parent.

Two things recently passed through my life that started me thinking on parenting and the roles of parents in the lives of their children. These two things (outlined below), along with my own upbringing and my experience working in education have solidified my opinions on what parenting SHOULD be and how it should be done (to a certain extent). While I am not a parent myself I have had to assist in some parenting with some of the children of people who are close to me. I have seen, first-hand, how children can be the most wonderful thing in one's life but I have also seen how they can be spoiled brats who take everything that they have for granted and complain about having to do the slightest amount of ANYTHING that requires effort on their part. I have seen both extremes and I have seen the battles that people whom I care for have had to have with their difficult children.

I believe that the primary duty of a parent is to do their best to ensure the survival of their child. This means providing all of the health care that the child needs, feeding it appropriately, providing shelter, etc.
I believe that the secondary duty of a parent to its child is to prepare it to be a functional adult in our society. This means providing the child with education (and making them get it when they do not want to) through schooling and through learning responsibility through working (chores, job, etc).

The first of the two events that started my thought processes on this is the second lawsuit regarding a child abuse situation.
I do not know all of the facts regarding this lawsuit but I have done some reading on it as it affects the primary grouping of one of my hobbies and the larger organization of which that group is a part.
The facts, as I understand them are:
1-One individual who was a part of a local chapter of the group (far from where I live) ran some youth activities for his local chapter of the group.
2-This individual was 45 years old and lived with his parents.
3-When his parents were not home for a weekend he would host activities there and invite one or more of the group's youths to the house for weekend-long (e.g. sleep-over) events.
4-The abuse happened on these weekend events.
5-The abuser was brought up on charges and sentenced to 60+ years in prison.
6-The parents of the children abused have sued the corporate entity that regulates the whole larger organization for $7M over this.
7-The primary argument of the parents who have brought the lawsuit is that they feel the corporate entity did not have the appropriate safety protocols in place to prevent this type of action from happening.
8-The organization and the parents settled for $1.3M. Each chapter, to pay for the settlement, must forfeit 18% of their assets to pay for the portion of the settlement that the corporate insurance providers refuse to pay.

To me this speaks volumes about the lack of parenting done by the parents. By saying this I am not dismissing the actions of the individual who committed the acts nor am I condoning them in any way. He acts were committed by him and he should hold the responsibility for them. He made the bad choices that hurt the children and he must pay for them. What I am questioning is why, if you examine points one through four, would ANY parent feel that this was not a questionable situation?

If any of my friends had children and they wanted to send them to such an event I would clearly question the wisdom of sending their child to a sleep-over with a 45 year old man whom you may not know well who will be in a house, alone, with your child.

I do understand that many sexual abuses of minor occur by people that the minor knows and trusts well - often a family member or close family friend whom the parents know and trust. I understand that that happens. I also understand that those situations often don't have warning signs that would lead to suspicion until after the abuse has happened.
I also understand that there are cases where people feel comfortable leaving their children with a close friend or someone whom they, or their other friends, trust to properly take care of their children. The difference, however, lies in the way the situation if built.
When my friends ask if their child(ren) can stay with my significant other and I for some reason it is driven by the parents. The parents are the ones working with us to setup a safe place for their child(ren) to stay for a night or two. In the instance of this case, however, I understand that the perpetrator of the crime intentionally created activities and invited the youths to his house when he would be the only adult present. One of these scenarios is creepy and terrifying, the other is not. The parents who accepted this man's invitation for their children made a mistake. They failed to see the warning signs and they failed to properly take control of the situation and do what they should have done to protect their children.
Furthering this is point seven above. Point seven, to me, outlines that the parents want to blame someone else and that placing that blame elsewhere is more important to them than anything else (also: greed). Having worked in schools I have seen this distressing trend grow among parents over the span of my life and career. This entire concept is outlined in this comic (which I have seen attributed to multiple places and with multiple different dates on it - if anyone knows the TRUE author please inform me so I can provide proper attribution and links):





The second item that came to my attention is a YouTube video. This video generated a solid positive response from nearly everyone I know. There was, however, one exception. One individual I know posted a response to the effect that she was sickened by the wave of positive support for this video. She pointed out the level of humiliation that this video would have caused the child, Hannah, who is referenced in the video.
While I see the level of humiliation that this child would have felt I cannot empathize with it based on the contents of the video itself.
Are there additional circumstances to the situation that the video does not cover? Undoubtedly. Is the destruction of the laptop excessive? Certainly.


Is this the video of a man who doesn't know what else to do to properly parent his child (in his eyes) and prepare her for the world that she will soon be joining as an independent adult? Yes.

Here is the video:


The reasons I am in support of this video are:
- The father clearly outlines that his daughter openly disrespected her parental units on facebook once before and had been reprimanded for it.
- The father spent a considerable amount of time and money updating / upgrading her laptop for her.
- The daughter then, after the updates and upgrades, posted the letter read by the father, disrespecting her parents AGAIN.
- The letter itself was addressed "to my parents" and posted in a public forum that they shouldn't be able to read due to the permissions set by the poster. This was CLEARLY designed to provide secret humiliation toward her parental units through her peer group.
- The HUGE list of chores outlined by the daughter was not that large.
- The father outlined what the chores actually meant instead of what the daughter made them out to be.


In short, I interpret this video as a father who has tried everything he can think of to work with his daughter to ensure that she grows-up to become a functional adult and she, having grown up in the era that she has grown-up in, does not realize how little investment she has had to make in anything. I interpret that he does not know what to do to make her understand the importance of appreciating things that others do for her and respecting everyone for the person they are. Clearly the daughter disrespects her parents and the lady who does some of their housecleaning and the father is concerned that she will grow up to disrespect everyone and treat them horribly.

It is easy to judge others and disrespect them from afar. It is easy to do it when your have parents who absorb the backlash. It is easy to do it when you are rich and powerful. It is easy to do it when you have earned high-level positions within an organization. It is not, however, easy to get to any of those places by doing it.

I feel terrible for the father for having felt that this was the only response he had left. I feel bad for the mother of this girl and the step-mother of this girl for having to work with her. I feel bad for the lady who does some of the house cleaning for the level of disrespect that this girl directs to her.

While I am in support of the father on this, I also feel bad for the girl. Not because her laptop was destroyed but, rather, because she has no idea how little she is actually prepared for the real world. College will crush her (if she goes) and the real world will crush her even faster. I hope that she finds something in her life to help her learn how to work with people rather than against them. I hope she finds something to teach her how to appreciate her parents and respect them. I hope she finds the path to being a fully functional and productive member of society.

I also hope that the father finds (or already possesses) the wisdom to accept his daughter's growth into a fully-functional adult if/when it happens. I hope this for him as I know that the most damaging thing to his relationship with his daughter will be to treat her as a child when she has grown into an adult who can, and does, make rational and appropriate adult decisions.

These are my thoughts on parenting. I welcome commentary, chastisements, support, questions, etc.

Thursday, December 22, 2011

More on Faith

I, personally, have seen no evidence of any omnipotent being other than an occasional alignment of improbable events in either a favorable or unfavorable way. This, however, does not mean that such a being does not exist. I can accept this and I can live with the realization that I can NEVER know if such a being exists. I am amazed, though, by the people who have an inability to comprehend this notion. Some of them have faith and feel sad for those of us whom have no faith. Others, however, feel a need to push their faith onto us in an effort to make us believe. Those whom have a solid faith of their own are people whom I respect and, honestly, envy. If their faith brings them some form of peace and provides them with a resolution that this world matters and/or brings them a form of happiness I am more happy for them than they could possibly know. The problem with seeing no evidence for such a being means that it is impossible to have raw faith in such a being. It is impossible to have faith that there is meaning in the world and it is impossible to have faith that there is something beyond this world. My lack of faith means I see the world as a raw accumulation of data and evidence. It is this that I believe in; not things which I cannot measure. Recently I have been having conversations with friends on this topic. Each and every person that I consider a friend whom I know their religious stance on falls into two categories. The first is a category of people like myself who lack and serious and solid faith in a supernatural entity. The second are those of faith who NEVER push their faith onto others. I find this extremely interesting as I choose my friends carefully and I choose people whom I consider good people to be my friends. Conversely I choose to avoid people whom I consider to be bad people. Many of the people whom I know and deliberately avoid are people of faith. They are people who push their faith on others and whom choose to use their faith as a shield to be judgmental against those who are different from themselves. The people whom I choose to avoid seem to be people who would push their religion onto others and cry that they are being oppressed when anyone tries to present a different idea to them. They are, in short, hypocrites as their religions all preach tolerance and acceptance. The people who I avoid because I find them intolerable are being whom abuse their fellow man. I have heard it said MANY times that people who lack faith MUST be bad people and have NOTHING to guide their moral compass. My questioning response to that alleged axiom is simple: How is it that I know so many people who have such little faith whom are good people and generous and kind and yet I have met so many people who preach their religion to others who are the opposite of that? If people who lack faith are inherently evil how is it that they are tolerant of people of faith and yet do good for the sole purpose of doing good? If people are doing good for the raw purpose of improving the world how are they WORSE people than those who do good ONLY because their religion tells them they must to be good people? If I can choose between right and wrong without a religion telling me which is which why is that a bad thing?